Babes & Babies How They Influence and Impact Black Men

    Friday, October 12, 2012, 5:04 PM [General]

    In the movie "I Think I Love My Wife," comedian and actor Chris Rock plays a sexually deprived husband and loving father who develops a crush on an old college friend that he bumps into (played by Kerry Washington). They start hanging out and his rekindled friendship with her awakens some romantic desires which create a disruption in both his marriage and his job. When he becomes dizzy with lust and starts to lose his grip on his responsibilities at the prestigious investment firm for which he works, his boss has a heart-to-heart with him and delivers some profound advice: "You can lose a lot of money chasing women...but you can't lose women chasing money." If only young black men would take heed to this advice as they are growing up. Such focus would prevent the underdevelopment of potential and values which cause them to go astray and seek validation in other ways. Culturally, black boys (especially those who have modest or above average looks) hear how many girlfriends they are expected to have, how many hearts they are going to break, or what a "lady killer" they are going to be before they learn to tie their own shoes. With the seeds of distraction planted so early in their fertile minds, and predictions of being a future "heartbreaker," black boys formulate subconscious achievement motives that entail the validation,erotic beijing massage, edification, and prioritization of babes. The validation confirms that they do indeed appeal to the opposite sex. The edification is what allows them to elevate themselves above the male competitors in their age group; further allowing the boosting of the ego and feelings of self-worth. The prioritization is the rank of importance that they place upon the expenditure of time used in the pursuit and conquest of women. Combined, they form the roots for many of the problems that plague black families. I call it the babes and babies syndrome: black men who are driven by the pursuit of babes and shun the responsibility of taking care of their babies in the process. For many of these young boys who become young men who suffer from this syndrome, it's hard to change their mentality. After all, if you are constantly asked how many girlfriends you have as you are growing up, it creates an unconscious expectation. Coupled with the fact that many of your peers are engaging in, and thereby endorsing the same behavior, our black teenage boys are more likely to get their player's cards before receiving their library cards. Despite the fact that friends and family members tell them to "settle" down when they get older (now full-grown men), it takes time (and usually some drama) before they develop a sense of consciousness about their lecherous ways. It's not that they can't help it, they often simply don't know how - especially after spending most of their lives as virile men whose self-worth and self-esteem is tied to the validation they receive from the sexual conquest of women. Breaking habits and changing the way we think is a tremendous challenge for all of us, but for the players of the world, it's exceptionally difficult. It doesn't happen simply because they feel "it's time," or because they feel like they're "getting older," it happens when the conquest of babes no longer holds the allure, power, validation, or meaning that it once did. Then, and only then, can there be a true shift in values. Some do make the successful transition from boys to men. They are the ones who either never bought into the "player's mentality" because they were guided or focused from an early age by parents, had off-setting values, or they played the field and their conscious made them change their ways; thus avoiding the babes and babies syndrome. Those who cling to the predatory mentality of using women to build, feed, or sustain their egos well into their adulthood comprise the bulk of the perpetrators who contribute to the demise of the socioeconomic plight of today's black families. It's a very serious problem. How serious? SAVE AMERICA Ministries published A Portrait of the Black Family 2007: Descent into Destruction! in which the following statistics were documented: -70% of all black children are born out of wedlock. -62% of black families with children are headed by a single parent. -85% of black children do not live in a home with their fathers. -Only 15-20% of black children born today will grow up with 2 parents until age 16. -70% of African-American boys in the criminal justice system come from single-parent homes,Hockey Productspparel. -50% of all new AIDS cases are in the Black community which comprises only 12% of the population. -85% of all AIDS cases in Atlanta are black women. -African-Americans are 20 times more likely than whites to have gonorrhea. -AIDS is now the #1 killer of black women, age 25-44. -67% of black women with AIDS contracted HIV thru heterosexual sex. -Black men in America engage in polygamous relationships, 3 1/2 times that of White or Hispanics. -Nearly 2 million black males are either currently in a state or federal prison or have been in one. -By age 30, only 52% of black women will marry compared to 81% of white women, 77% of Hispanics and Asians. James Flynn, whose claim to fame is his much discussed "Flynn Effect" in which he documents the increase in black IQs by about 15 percent, published the following information which relates to the demise of black marriages in New Scientist. Government statistics show that at birth there are 104 black boys for every 100 girls. Between ages 25 and 45, six more men than women are dead, leaving 98 men for every 100 women. Of these 98 men, nine are in jail, eight are missing and 21 are employed less than half-time. That leaves 60 "promising" black men - men who are alive, employed and not convicted felons. Also consider that promising black men living with a non-black partner outnumber white men with a black partner by three. That leaves only 57 black men for every 100 women in a position to be a permanent partner. Out of 100 black women, 43 face the choice of either having a child by a black man who is unlikely to settle down with them or going childless - assuming they (a) want to get married, and (b) want to have children. That's compelling information. Is it accurate? The wreckage that can be seen in fragmented black families which are headed by single mothers says that it is. Also, just witnessing the number of wayward black men who continue to celebrate their masculinity through procreation instead of through the active and full parent participation in the lives of their children, is further proof. When black men can find significance and meaning in their lives internally they are less reliant on external circumstances for an ego boost, or to fill a void. They can find pride, peace, and salvation in the sanctity of marriage, and the joy of fatherhood if they choose to attach value to it. Which brings me back to the movie "I Think I Love My Wife,massage beijing." Once Chris Rock's character reveals his lust to his long lost friend, they agree to have a "good-bye fling". He arrives at her place and continues to ponder his decision to go through with it. She opens the door wearing very revealing lingerie and effectively confirms his decision to go through with it. He catches a glimpse of himself in the mirror with his tie on his head and is reminded of his young daughter (who he is in a previous scene with playing affectionately). It's a moment of reckoning for him. He reassembles himself and leaves without becoming another victim of the babes and babies syndrome.
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    Top notch shooting accessories in London

    Friday, October 12, 2012, 5:04 PM [General]

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    A Christmas Story-The Best Christmas Movie Ever Made

    Friday, October 12, 2012, 5:04 PM [General]

    Sometimes a movie-maker really gets it right and produces a film for all time. It requires a brilliant script, a dream cast, a gifted director and an outstanding photographer and technical staff. Put them all together and you can produce magic. Bob Clark and Gene Shepherd did just that in The Christmas Story,beijing massage girl,The Story Of The Proton Discovery And The People Behind It. All the more surprising when you realize that Bob Clark had also produced the Porky's movies. It's hard to say that A Christmas Story is better than It's a Wonderful Life, Frank Capra's masterpiece with Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed. Wonderful Life has always been one of my favorite movies. Good ole George Bailey was an example for us all. How could anyone resist someone who had gone through so much undeserved hard luck to triumph in the end? Stewart himself considered it to be his favorite movie. Even so, I found it increasingly difficult to watch it as time went by. The movie was incomplete. I kept wanting to see George and Uncle Billy pay a visit on Old Mr. Potter to get their money back. Apparently I wasn't the only one. Saturday Night Live once had a great skit that dealt with just that. In the black and white vignette, George and Billy storm Potter's house and dump him out of his wheelchair to make him produce the cash. I know that George never would actually do such a thing, but I still enjoyed seeing it happen. As great as the the cast and story were, though, what I always liked most about the movie was the setting. The old cars and storefronts and the inside of the Bailey House always brought back warm memories of the way things were when I was a kid. Bob Clark created the same effect in A Christmas Story, which was set in 1940s Gary, Indiana. From the first shot, with the children standing in wonder in front of a department store toy window, I was transported back to my childhood. My folks would bring me downtown to see the toys in the Dayton's Department store window. I was dazzled. I remember I had to wear a clunky snow hat, but I never pressed my nose against the store window, I was too afraid of germs, but boy did I take my time taking it all in. Ralphie's house was right out of my neighborhood, too. We had a breakfast nook and didn't eat at a table except on special occasions, but the rest of the kitchen was the almost exactly the same. It was great to see the old appliances again. My earliest childhood memory was of a Tide box and sure enough, there it was sitting on Mrs. Parker's counter. My Dad didn't swear, so he wasn't like Mr. Parker, but I sure knew men in the neighborhood who were like the character Darrin McGavin played. And my mother was as sweet as Melinda Dillon, Ralphie's mother. The school looked exactly the same as Cooper Elementary, where I attended. Ralphie's machinations to get a bb-gun were similar to the lengths I went to get a pair of Roy Rogers cowboy boots. The only difference was, I never got them. I had talked Grandma into buying them for me, but my Mom stepped in and messed up my plans. I really knew deep in my heart that Grandma couldn't have afforded to spend the $15 to buy them. Ralphie and his friends talked exactly the same way I remember us talking. I never issued a triple-dog-dare, but I sure knew what it meant. I even remember someone sticking their tongue on an iron railing. We even had a neighborhood bully like Skut Farkas. His name, believe it or not, was Clem Klingelhut. Funny and sweet as the movie was, there was enough vinegar to keep it from cloying. The mean Santa Claus and his slide were one of the high points of the entire show. My son and I watched the movie together, laughing all the way through,beijing massage. I immediately started talking it up to all my friends and even treated one of my customers to dinner and a viewing. None of them had heard of the movie, but all of them agreed it was one of the most enjoyable movies they had ever seen, and mostly for the same reasons that I liked it so much. Most of them wouldn't go so far as to say it was better than Wonderful Life, but I thought so. It was far less depressing. And I didn't leave the theater wishing mean old Mr. Potter hadn't gotten away with his evil deed.
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    The Morning After Pill Levonelle

    Friday, October 12, 2012, 5:04 PM [General]

    According to a survey conducted on 1,600 patients by Mediguard, it has been seen that the age group that uses Levonelle most is people aged between 21 and 39. The General Household survey conducted by the government yielded the following information on Levonelle: In the age-group 16 and 17, 12 % of girls had used this tablet at least once after having sexual intercourse. One out of every 50 girls had used this tablet two times. One out of every 100 girls had used Levonelle more than twice. In the age-group 18-19, 16 % of girls, or more than one out of six girls, had used this pill once. One out of every 25 girls had taken it two times. The survey also reported that nine out of every ten 16-year-old girls knew of emergency contraception. ,erotic beijing massage. Working of Levonelle The key ingredient of Levonelle is a synthetic second generation progestogen called Levonorgestrel. It is used for preparation of the class of pharmaceuticals known as hormonal contraceptives,beijing massage girl. In order to have confidence in the abilities of this pill, you should have a basic knowledge of its working. Levonelle may work in different ways on the basis of the time of your cycle you are in. The following are the various methods in which Levonelle prevents pregnancy: Preventing release of eggs from ovary. Obstructing the process of fertilization of the eggs that may have been previously released. Obstructing a fertilized egg when it tries to attach itself to the lining of the womb. Although it works best if taken within 12 hours, it can be taken up to 72 hours after having unprotected sex. The effectiveness of this tablet has been studied for the period of 72 hours and the following observations have been made: 95% within 24 hours 85% between 24 and 48 hours 58% between 48 and 72 hours For nursing mothers, it is important to know that 0.1% of the administered dose can get transferred through milk to the infant. The effect on the child due to this transfer has not been studied. Side-Effects of Levonelle The common fleeting side-effects of this drug are mentioned below. Breast tenderness Headache Stomach pain Diarrhoea Dizziness Fatigue How to Procure Levonelle Women over 16 years of age can procure Levoelle from the following sources: Registered pharmacies Online clinics If you are under 16 years of age,Be Free With Sim-free, you should consult your family doctor and parents before you can buy this emergency contraceptive. Order your prescribed medicines like Levonelle and get them delivered to your doorstep, anywhere in Europe. Visit UK-based online clinic Online Rx at www.OnlineRx.co.uk.
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    Effective Ways to Cure a Hangover

    Wednesday, October 3, 2012, 4:14 PM [General]

    If you are a regular drinker, you naturally want to understand how to treat a hangover. Why not Hangover can be so irritating. It can even cause feelings that are as exasperate for being pulled among a battle You can have splitting headaches, dry jaws nausea, dizziness and more. But of lesson the best way apt cure this terrible condition is never to drink apt excess. But what whether you can't help yet drink to your heart's appetite Well, there are but proven and efficacious remedies and methods is you can do among order to remedy hangover. A hangover is caused along the blend of toxic side-effect subsequent to the metabolism of alcohol It is absolutely an unlikable experience. Other unpleasant feelings is you may experience are depletion of Vitamins A, B, (predominantly B6) and C and dehydration produced onward the chemical action of alcohol among your system. Moreover, you longing likewise feel needy and stressed in the meantime,Cockroach Activity as Daytime and Night Time,massage beijing! But,beijing eritic massage,as said earlier, there are anyhow some prevention measures is can cure a hangover. Read on and follow: Download this image from (c) Dreamstime.com * First of forever never ever attempt to drink with one blank belly For all period consume edible for you drink liquor and never forget to dine something oily favor butter alternatively fuel You may venture consuming five tablespoons of olive fuel before you drink. * Drink a lot of water. In point of truth lots of them. This ambition cure the dehydration caused onward undue liquor in the body. * It namely very intricate apt awake with a hangover. And you absence something apt help you chance activated and replenish your lost vigor You must drink juices namely are rich among fructose. This ambition help you flame the brandy more immediately Fructose juices can likewise assistance among the process of altogether getting rid of the hangover. The most majestic drink drink that you can have namely the tomato beverage or apple drink for these can flush out the toxins in your system. You should also drink lemon drink surrounded order to repair the dehydration that you body is feeling. These juices likewise contain vitamins is your body requires among order to obtain back its lost stamina. * Honey can likewise help you regain from a hangover. Honey can preoccupy the liquor among your body. * You can also cook yourself one eggs as eggs are known apt contain special vitamins namely cysteine. This substance helps within the breaking down of the acetaldehyde. The eggs can also assistance you out with one upset abdomen and acquaint you activated throughout your daytime. * Lastly,get a hangover patch onward starting drinking. By means of a hangover patch, you can eliminate your hangover directly Hangover patch namely today's most serviceable practical and important hangover treat and prevention product among the marketplace. Now is you are acquainted with the change ways aboard how apt treat a hangover, you ought be on your line of raid to overcoming those frightful disgustful and irritating hangovers.
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    Top 5 Best Gangster Movies

    Wednesday, October 3, 2012, 4:14 PM [General]

    If you are looking for one adoption to the bothersome natural channels of TV and hope to enjoy special pure clowning motion-picture shows among your DVD alternatively Blu-ray, you oblige to retard out my height 10 best comedy movies of all duration. Best sitcom movies of all phase have perpetually been prized for their lean touch, temper, and black information they impart amongst nipping comment to the piles of movie spectators. From mind-blank clownings,beijing massage girl,Zombie Games - The Living Dead,apt meaningful funny film pictures, you can enjoy them anytime of the 24-hour interval apt get a mirth And laughter is the greatest medicine apt blank out always worries. Here namely the account of my pick altitude ten best comedy movies of entire time: Ace Ventura Pet Detective: This is oftentimes rated for the virtually hilarious and maximum best sitcom membrane of entire duration This Jim Carrey moving-picture show enabled him to accessory renown as the resemble preposterous hero of the hundred. Ace Ventura has some settings where you study yourself dropping down shine by the idiotic activities of the agonist. And this gives also been taken Jim Carrey's funniest membrane ever. Zoolander: Different popular comedian, Ben Stiller, strikes to his wits within this image show with Will Farrell. This namely a huge comedy apt watch at family among your place theater with home and acquaintances. You ambition laugh approximately passim the membrane The digital duplicate of the flick namely available among Blu-ray format likewise. Royal Tanenbaums: This namely a black clowning with some thinking in it. Though this won't get you smile like a angry man, this funniness is still considered a quite agreeable drollery membrane thanks apt almost smart and amusing aspects which clear it five of the best movies of entire phase. Me, Myself And Irene - This is another agreeable sitcom by funniness king,erotic beijing massage, Jim Carrey. The persona of Hank works the pic worth catching. It namely available surrounded several DVD and Blu-ray data formatting. The split identity of Jim Carrey given acquaint anyone joke favor a possessed. Pineapple Express: You volition achieve seeing this film why Seth Rogen namely constantly called the best funny actor of last years. He proves apt be a actually humorous companion among this best movies of entire phase according with otherwise humorous guys prefer Red and Saul. Austin Powers: Overseas Man Of Mystery - Patch organising the account of my strongest comedies of entire period one won't be proficient apt shut out this swaggering and screaming peregrination of Austin Abilities himself.
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    Does Champagne Give You A Hangover

    Wednesday, October 3, 2012, 4:13 PM [General]

    Some folk mention that champagne hangovers are not change from customary hangovers,erotic beijing massage,besides that you feel a lot classier. Whereas others swear forward their favourite bottle of Bollinger namely they never ever obtain hangovers from champers. Some among the never obtain hangovers from champagne?camp mention it is dpwn to the egorgement?stage of The Champenoise Method of making lofty quality champagne. This is the penultimate step among creating the absolute bottle of bubbly and involves the bottles being stored with the cork pointing down plus being regularly plus gently shaken apt encourage the yeast to settle approximately the cork. By going amongst this process the yeast plus other impurities tin then be removed surrounded the final opping up plus corking out?stage. Another feasible explanation for the lack of hangover behind drinking Champagne is down apt the levels of Sulphites among it. All wines contain Sulphur Dioxide,yet some contain higher levels than others. High levels of Sulphur Dioxide are believed apt reason allergic reactions and are closely associated to hangovers. So the fewer SO2 the less hangover effects. Champagne has one of the lowest levels of sulphites and this is constantly cited for the scientific reason for Champagne never causing hangovers. Another quite practical reason for Champagne never giving people a hangover namely the price of it. Champagne is a beauteous drink that takes many years to construct plus among corner costs a fair morsel of money. Your average Joe simply cannot afford to drink enough Champagne to give them a hangover,Ponds & Waterfalls Water Living! Whatever the result Champagne still contains alcohol plus it longing still acquaint you dehydrated. Make sure you drink profusion of water onward plus after your sophisticated Champagne soiree,plus whether you tin,meantime youe drinking it. After always there nothing classy almost spending the after day backward a sophisticated party among your pyjamas watching Eastenders with a stinking hangover! However if or not Champagne gives you a hangover it namely still the drink namely is favoured along the rich plus notable for of its aesthetic taste and fine bubbles. Not always of us tin afford apt drink endless bottles of champagnes on a night out,yet you tin cure a loved one alternatively impress a happening client along choosing one of the much champagne gifts easily Our favourite award fancy namely a bottle of personalised champagne that makes the recipient feel addition special and style they don must share their bottle of champagne with anyone else,massage beijing!
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    The Green Hornet

    Wednesday, October 3, 2012, 4:13 PM [General]

    I equitable read article virtually emerge from about Seth Rogan's green hornet adaptation. It has been in and out of studio heads hands since 2000. They have had script issues,beijing massage, casting problems and the script has changed hands a few times since 2000. A few hurl have bailed out deserving apt creative differences. So Ie been skeptical about the upcoming version starring Seth Rogan. I must avow from the 1st period I heard Seth Rogan was doing a green hornet film I had apt jolt my brain He equitable doesn beat me as the super hero type. I had numerous conversations with co workers and friends over this. The all said impartial give him a accident you might prefer it. I thought they could have gone with accessory of a direct face solemn type myself. Don get me wrong I prefer Seth Rogan a lot I think he is quite humorous just not the hero type. I went apt the opening weekend a micro skeptical nearly Seth for one action hero. This update daytime version of the 60 hero the green hornet takes area among the metropolis of los angles. It stars stars Seth Rogan (super bad pineapple express) as the green hornet, jay chao Kato once held along the legendary Bruce lee. It likewise stars Cameron Diaz as Lenore case the secretly of my brit ried.There are likewise small along parts forward James franco and Edward furlong. The green hornet is virtually a fellow who has done nothing with his life yet be a celebration chap for his father runs a major weekly His father James Reid Played wonderfully according tom Wilson (batman begins) dies inexpertly. He doesn understand if he wants apt take over the periodical cause of his past relationship with his father. Brit goes maniac one a m while his coffee is never made his special access asks the maid who made his coffee. She says Kato merely you fired him. Kato come backs to the mansion and their friendship [takes off from there. Kato takes Britt on a journey of the garage while he showed him entire of the material he was working aboard because his father. Brit and Kato went out one night apt occasion some destruction and take the head off his father statue, they escape into a mugging and assistance break it up with Kato's martial arts. They hire Cameron Diaz who has a minor among criminal justice and can diagram out guilt diagram next moves. She faxes the guys material amid the African beauty I didn know cars come equipped with fax machines. There use of the automobile chase throughout the street of la was noted camera work. Seth and jays costumes outfits were right out of the comics and the TV show. I have to mention favor I pointed out earlier I was skepcatial nearly Seth Rogan surrounded a hero role.I spent time this week watching shows I recorded apt get a idea about the character The charter from the show van Williams was very straight lace and serious Seth add his humor by a agreeable times never Turing it into a spoof which I expected. I came out of the theater pleasantly surprised by deficiency I saw. I thought Seth Rogan pulled it off well as superhero,Learning English as a Second Language,beijing erotic massage,merely impartial because keeping up with comics sake I would have prefer apt perceive a extra direct laced type of role for the green hornet. I give 21/2 stars give it three your s serious hornet fan/ film reviews and news
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