SEXY SEX by GuyBlews on Relationship-Advice-Expert-Guy-Blews SEXY SEX Relationship Advice Expert and Certified Life Coach Guy Blews?on SEXY SEX: Without SEX, your relationship is just a friendship... or a marriage. Haha. SEXY SEX is commonly enjoyed in the first few months of a relationship, and if you're really lucky it lasts for over a year. Normally, a relationship goes something like this - you meet, you court, you have intercourse, you are exclusive, you become complacent, you stop being original, your partner says one too many things that irritate or disrespect you,Cake By Design NYC, your sex life becomes mundane at best and non-existent at worst, you wish you could move on but have become co-dependent (thanks to kids, living arrangements, finances or family), you either become asexual which means you suffer or you have an affair which means they do... the relationship continues on a mundane and limited path or the relationship ends. That's a huge generalization, but it's pretty accurate, isn't it? Be honest. I know. Depressing. But also kind of funny... No? Oh, I thought it was. Certified-Life-Coach-Guy-Blews SEXY SEX So - how do we resolve the issue? How do we keep having SEXY SEX when we know our partner way too well to be mystified or intrigued anymore? How do we overcome the odds and get the great relationship with the great sex? Easy. Communicate. Listen. Act. You should always be able to communicate with your partner about what you want, what turns you on, what excites you, what you are looking for... You should always be able to listen to what your partner is asking for, stating, suggesting or,Light Works KPI, wishing you would or would not do. You should always act on their ideas - unless you have communicated otherwise and a solution has been reached. Basically, life, nature, animal instinct, reality, depravity, and time are not particularly conducive to a lifetime of blissful and stimulating monogamy - I know you wish it were otherwise, but it's just not how humans are set up to behave... Relationship-Expert-Guy-Blews SEXY SEX I am a big believer in words and actions going together - I am also a big believer in reality. And the reality is that even the best intentions can let down the greatest thoughts and promises. So - here's a solution: Start your relationships with a SEXY SEX mind frame. Rather than going into relationships and expecting a lifetime of monogamy, why not go into a relationship accepting the reality? The reality is that after a decade or so, monogamy is just unfair, on both partners. If we accepted that raising children or building a life together were completely separate from monogamy, then we would all be better off. If we went into relationships accepting the probability that one day our partner may stray, then we would have a triple positive outcome - firstly, we would make more effort to keep them SEXually satisfied; secondly, we would not be devastated if and when they finally gave in to their nature (and our disdain); and thirdly, we would allow ourselves a little freedom without the guilt. All in all, SEXY SEX is dependent upon variation with consistency, which is reliant upon communication and confidence. If you want your partner to stay with you and not be with anyone else, then you better be an all-round prodigy of emotional and physical stimulation - you cannot reasonably expect someone to be monogamous if you are not providing them with a great SEX life, and they cannot reasonably expect you to be monogamous if they are not providing you with a great SEX life. We are creatures who thrive on give and take... If you want to be an all-round prodigy of emotional and physical stimulation, then you better be a great communicator on all levels and you better be confident in your ability to love properly, fully and consistently (with a splash of interestingly varied activity). Relationship-Expert-Guy-Blews SEXY SEX I know it can be done. I know we could all achieve this goal of SEXY SEX if we were all a little more aware of the effects of complacency, children, finances and co-habitation. I know that we all have the ability to be sensual, sexual, playful, fun, tough, kind, gentle, soft, generous, selfish, receptive, intrusive, and even a little risque, crazy and dirty when the need or desire arises... These are some of the many varied and essential elements of SEXY SEX. If SEXY SEX is what you want, then you better learn to live with less things and more love (www.LessThingsMoreLove.com) because watching football games, getting drunk, talking about cars, shoes, handbags or animals, raising too many children, owning a huge house, shopping too much, worrying about the Jones's, working too hard, or being wrapped up in what your legacy might be is not conducive to SEXY SEX. You see, SEXY SEX is not just about SEX, it's about everything... SEXY SEX is an artform that we would all do well to study, practice and excel in. - For?FREE?newsletters, please click and sign in here -? GUY BLEWS is a Certified Life Coach, and a?Relationship Advice and Dating Advice Expert that offers One-On-One Coaching. He is the Author of?Marriage & How To Avoid It, Divorce & How To Avoid It, How To Screw Your Other Half,?Realistic Relationships and?Less Thing$ More Love which are all available at his website () for $9.99, or at as paperback books. He has been an energetic host and an interestingly controversial guest on numerous television and radio shows throughout the world. Visionary or pariah? You decide.