(pumped question) Whether the mental substance or substances have the spirit of the marriage had not calm, young people must learn to think the wind and rain. Ultimately, the value of the generation of young people will determine your own destiny and happiness of marriage. - Song fish and water after 80 legal stories (9) text / Gao no house, no car, no ring, no wedding, no deposit, no wedding, no honeymoon, Tong Lin, the same like the Tong Jiaqian where the TV series However, the married poor Youyanjiangcu Tea their Shake her love - for love in her body. Tong Lin was admitted to a prestigious graduate, mother Tong biggest wish is her daughter in the future there is a good destination. She was always earnestly warned Tong Lin, carefully selected a condition of good object must keep their eyes open. research the summer, Tong Lin went to the old revolutionary base areas to attend a summer social practice, became acquainted with the national first-class counterparts University Department of Architecture PhD Hao Wei. Hao Wei from a remote rural areas in Guizhou, his inarticulate, sincere, but resolutely. Hao Wei pragmatic and sincere touched the hearts and minds of the Tong Lin, Hao Wei Tong Lin kindness and intelligence attracted. Back in Beijing, Hao Wei Tong Lin shows the true feelings: Lynn did not hesitate nodded. heard the news of the love of Tong Lin, Tong mother both surprise and some apprehension, can not wait to ask: Some overwhelmed. Tong Lin is very clear, Hao Wei has been hiring the best Design and Research Institute, Hao Wei's family is difficult to meet the expectations and requirements of the mother. Therefore, she did not directly answer the mother's, but left the mother of Tong endless suspense. to personally examine her daughter's boyfriend, Tong Lin's parents specially arrived from his home in Beijing. Tong Lin repeatedly boast of Hao Wei's advantages to their parents, but when it comes to home in the countryside, Hao Wei Tong mother immediately expressed their opposition. Finally Tong father intercede Tong mother agreed to see Hao Wei side. the met Tong mother asks her bluntly: , Hao Wei has already mentally prepared: intends to continue questioning the side of the Tong Lin stop. Has remained silent Tong father also expressed his views: blink of an eye to the quarter of graduation, in August 2009, Hao Wei and Tong Lin participated in the work. With the surrounding Need rental housing, they invariably think of marriage registration of marriage, so he went behind her parents secretly go to Bureau of Civil Affairs. no house, no car, no ring, no wedding, no deposit, no wedding, no honeymoon, just two young hearts closely connected together. business with love Tong mother learned that her daughter licensing, more than half a year later. At that time, Tong Lin Elementary School students, Xu Yan marry a Held a lavish ceremony in his hometown. See the happiness, Xu Yan Tong mother psychological extremely uneven, his daughter is not only highly educated than Xu Yan, and looks better this way than the object of her daughter's marriage is worse than Xu Yan. She immediately called Tong Lin, ordered her to immediately break up with Hao Wei. Tong Lin had long been married to her frankly the fact that deeply hurt her heart, hung up the phone, she was heartbroken. Tong mother in any way difficult to accept Tong Lin marriage room to get married, she often tears Tong Lin said: walk to the sun, why do you bring your own to the dark? In fact, since Tong Lin was invited to participate Xu Yan fantastic wedding, also visited her a posh three-bedroom marriage room, out of the girl's instinct, Tong Lin, I envy, and my heart Start with the film. in early July 2011, Tong Lin, because the cold suffering from a bad cold, Hao Wei Hong Kong on business, the landlord suddenly notice within five days must be Tengfang, she felt an unprecedented sense of weight. Dragged his weak body, Tong Lin, braved the scorching hot sun began to find that room, ran for two days but no fruit and normalized. She does not have the heart to disturb Hao Wei, go to the parents for help. Tong mother rushed to Beijing, and took the opportunity to requirements Tong Lin, a divorce lawyer written the complaint. Tong Lin, after a series of ideological struggle, and ultimately signed the complaint on the word. Hao Wei all this totally unaware, threw himself into the project in Hong Kong, the leadership is very appreciated for his talent, he put his career on every little bit of progress as their joint efforts with his wife results. Some incentive to his wife, he bought a diamond ring to Tong Lam. On the way back to Beijing, he has been brewing in how to be late two years,mickey mouse adidas, the diamond ring wear Tong Lin, did not expect to just enter the house received Tong Lin divorce indictment. He tried to restore the marriage, and several attempts to contact Tong Lin Hao Wei tears, the other person's phone is always turned off. court that day, Hao Wei rushed to the court early. Tong Lin Tong accompanied by her mother, and looked slightly nervous. When Hao Wei familiar figure greeted the moment, her tears suddenly, such as Quan. Hao Wei habitually close to beloved wife, in a low tone, said: heart the words wash away the Tong Lin, all the blame and pain, not just this man, and perhaps can not give her a sheltered, but it can be paid to her true warmth of life. Tong Lin, apply to a judge for withdrawal. Tong mother paused, may also be moved by the young couple in love. Family profiling people analysis: Song fish and water (Haidian District, Beijing Vice-President, a national model judge to mediate known) Tong Lin eventually returned to Hao Wei side, love ultimately trumps everything, this outcome seems with the color of idealism. In fact, Tong Lin and Hao Wei is the emotional foundation, the barrier between them there is no Tong Lin's mother, it seems, no house is no home. So she not only before marriage to prevent her daughter, marriage is still required her to divorce. parents why it is so secular? Generally, marriage, parents interloper interference unsuccessful. The road of a happy marriage, parents have intervened thousands of years, whether it should continue? If this problem is to get married for the cut-off point, really want to alert parents of the world, because there is a very simple truth, when two young people are immersed in the fiery love and pure happiness, not to rub it into the secular sand , but will be self-defeating and counterproductive. Therefore, the choice of the young people themselves is very important to respect the choice is also the trend of modern society, a development of young people. problem is that marriage is a lifelong thing, marriage is just the beginning of two people who can protect the life spend? What can ensure that the life of marriage? not to marry a poor white, prefer to life after marriage, poor and white. Marriage and property, especially real estate relationship can not be separated. People have the right to the pursuit of a better and prosperous life is nothing more than a hope that rely on future career efforts to obtain, another hope for more of the shortcut. real estate is the practical problem faced by the contemporary young people, the lucky parents will help some more bad luck dilemma. But I think that this should not become the main criterion for young mate. The era of development, the improvement of the system, young people's contribution to society at any time may change the status quo. If the vision of a generation to look back at history, every generation have experienced the great changes of history. Countries is changing people's life is changing, the family life of individuals also have seen dramatic changes. Therefore, we can not draw a conclusion on a point in time. for the next generation of children, property is only the little signs, the most important sign is necessary to identify people. Today's young people more contact, the knowledge is broad, very sunny soul, young people, the overall quality can be expected; increase in the overall quality mark means that the choice should be broad, deep, not too narrow. mental substance or material, the spirit of the marriage had not calm, young people must learn to think the wind and rain. Ultimately, the value of the generation of young people will determine your own destiny and happiness of marriage. Parents only one who lived through the desire to open for you the book, can not accept, but to read, to enlightenment, to go beyond; may not accept the concept of parents 'marriage, but to accept the parents' wishes. Parents are not of the world do not want the children happy, especially the parents of one child, they interfere in you or laissez-faire that you are a worry, and love dedicated to you - always. The (From Editor: SN044)